I suppose everyone has secrets hidden in the basement, closet or chimney, for reasons undisclosed for better or for worse. But what if its the ugly truth? A horrid truth that if were to come out of your mouth would put u in a position of being a heart breaker? Not withstanding the fact that the secret already known to several close people. It just bothers me that not all things can be honestly said, more like being kept just to save face? to keep some people happy? If I had things my own way I would be blunt and honest. But the Malaysian society as usual condemns the whistle blower or some people are just to hard headed to accept the facts while blasting you for revealing it.
Downright hypocrisy by some which regard relationships are based on honesty and integrity if you were to ask me. I suppose some people are fine to build a castle where it is founded on lies, dishonesty and the Malaysian saying of 'tak apa punya'. Given a position where u knew a dark secret of your friends spouse that could cause an emotional tsunami what would you do? Prepare the ship and ride the waves? Or be a fake friend who pretends all is well and dandy.....knowing if and when the times comes the secret is out of the bag you're gonna deal with a emotional wreck. So what will it be? Heartbreaker? or Asskisser? Which 1 shall it be?
Cheers
